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Adverb: ruefully  roo-fu-lee
  1. With genuine regret, sorrow, or repentance for one's actions
    "He ruefully admitted his mistake";
    - contritely, remorsefully
     
  2. With a mixture of regret and wry amusement
    "He ruefully shook his head at his own foolishness"